First of all, in your own post you admit that Boston isn’t his top priority and money is. I agree and hey, it’s his career. I’ve left jobs for more money, too, and I don’t consider it trailblazing.
But Bogaerts isn’t “vastly” underpaid. He is a bit underpaid, but his $20mill AAV is not far behind the only two shortstops within his fWAR neighborhood - Semien ($25mill) and Story ($23mill).
It looked to me like X’s only goal right now is to see if the Sox blow him away. Maybe that’s why he never made a counteroffer - he didn’t have a number in mind for what it would take. Even Devers - a full year further away - made an informal counter (“about $100 million short.”). It’s a bit vague but it gives Bloom something to work with.
This is a business transaction that fans want to make personal so they can blame someone. Each side has a goal of getting the highes or lowest extreme. The Sox, with Story on board, have all the leverage right now. When X opts out, he will gain more leverage by having other teams to talk to.
And if he doesn’t talk to Boston, sure his agent might say the offer was “insulting” or whatever. But really it will be because Boston didn’t make other offers or didn’t increase the years.
And really, it is the years that are the problem. Xander might be able to get a better AAV than $22.5mill, but not by much. His ceiling as I’ve said all along is probably closer to $25mill.
But I also would be surprised if X wanted to be a free agent again at 33….