OK, I just watched that at bat again.
@ slasher - The first pitch called a strike was a borderline high strike, but IMO (and according to K zone) it was a strike. It was certainly close enough for the call to go either way. The 2nd pitch was almost in the exact same location, maybe a 1/2 inch higher, but again, close enough to be called a strike if Hanley hadn't swung. The third pitch was probably another 1/2 inch to inch higher, not a strike, but too close to take.
@ Moon - After the 1st pitch, Hanley said something to Romine. After the strike out, Hanley mouthed something in Chapman's direction. I do not get the impression that Hanley had a defeatist attitude, but that he was tipping his cap to Chapman for beating him in that at bat, which sometimes you just have to do. But to me, the look also said, "I'll get you next time." And yes, I can infer all that from watching on a tv screen.