This is actually a very touchy subject for me, and it might come as a shock to some I'm a little nervous to write this but I can relate here a lot. To put it as P.G. as I possibly can I was hugged too much as a child and it completely f***ed me up in life. My parents had no ideal what was going on but a teacher I had in elementary school did things to me that should never happen to any 7-year-old boy. I've been addicted to everything in my life from alcohol, to methadone, to crack, to gambling, to overeating, to sex (every person I ever met with a sexual addiction was also sexually molested as a young child). I've gone to AA, OA, NA, and SA, and to this day I am 10.5 years sober from everything. One thing I have learned through my experiences in AA, OA, NA, and SA is that all forms of addiction are just symptoms of the same disease.....people are covering up trauma. I'm willing to bet that McGuire has had some serious childhood trauma that he's dealing with that led him to do the things he did. I had actually met a guy who was traumatized when he was 6 years old by a group of younger boys in town who used to think it was funny to take him in the woods and Master**** on top of him. They told him it was a game, he grew up to do the same things McGuire did.
No one ever deserves to be the victim of someone else B.S. If your parents beat you as a kid and you grew up to be an alcoholic I feel sorry for you and hope you get all the help you need in the world, you have my sympathy....but at the same time, it's no excuse for getting behind the wheel and killing someone. I would like to know the extent to what McGuire actually did, did he actually assault someone? or did he just play with his wanky thinking his windows were tinted and someone caught him? People also have the capacity to change too, and I've seen people with all types of addictions change themselves. Ten years ago I was pushing 290 Lbs' eating, sniffing, smoking, gambling, and f***ing myself to an early grave. Destroyed my marriage and my life and have spent the past ten years rebuilding it. I walk around at 180 now, in the BSOML and am clean from every vice that every vice and drug that ever afflicted me. So....I don't want to hear people in here say that people can't change because that's absolute ******** and I can attest to that personally.