Since this is a very well-written post, and you have been polite, I respectfully disagree with you here. Take it from me, a serious Yankee fan...it is much better to WIN than to be competitive, and we are competitive every year. I'm starting to feel like a Braves fan now, going nowhere fast. Would you have traded your WS win in 2004 for going to the playoffs every year since 95 like us? No, you wouldn't.
The majority of fans, players, owners, etc. want to win. I for one would trade three losing seasons for one world series champion, rather than being competitive every year. If we won one season every four, thats 25 Championships in 100 years. I'll take it.
Teams have windows. The window on both the Yankees and Red Sox has passed. We are both trying to re-open it, but our core is disappearing, the players who got us our championship(s). Teams like the Tigers, Mets, Twins, Angels, etc., are coming into their own. Their rosters have a lot more potential than ours do, respectively. The advantage of money to keep that window open helps...but when the sun sets on Papi and Manny, and Derek and Mo on our end...it aint gonna be easy. Win while you can. That's my philosophy.
One team wins. The rest are losers. That's the way I see it.