This is spot on. You're right. These things absolutely "feel real." But they're likely not. Just as we all "feel" that deep down inside, we are good people (which we likely aren't). (Wasn't there a survey done once where subjects were asked to rate themselves on morality and ethics? Nearly everyone rated themselves higher than Mother Teresa--btw, this was in the days when M.T. was considered flawless). Similarly, my students all consider themselves really smart, and exceptionally hard workers; and members of certain political parties (no names here) all sincerely believe that on matters of public health ... well, perhaps I won't get into it. This and other sports boards provide plenty of evidence that we really don't know sh*t, although we ALWAYS think we do.