thank you - It isn't uncommon knowledge that most people want clear and well defined boundaries. Wishy washy doesn't normally make it. A good manager, coach, or boss, doesn't miss things. They are aware of what is going on around them. People that pride themselves on appearing to be disciplinarians and just act like they are, I really have no use for. I was called a disciplinarian as a teacher and a coach but I can't say that they made me feel good. I just wanted to be good at what I did. On the other hand, I have 0 use for the good old boys who think that you just have to be one of the guys and everything will work out fine. Good, honest, firm, fair, and intelligent people will succeed and they more often than not can relate to just about anybody without regard at all for age. You don't have to be young to succeed with young players.