I' Sorry

[schillingouttheks]

Oh man SFoC...I'm speechless. Everyone here is thinking of you. GET WELL. If there is ANYTHING I can do, or anyone on this forum for that matter, I'm sure we'll all be more than willing to help. Send me a PM or just post something if you're in need of any help. We're here for you man, you're a strong man and you will pull through.

[Soxfan1]

Same here if you need like care or someone to drive you to the hospital i'll send my chauferere. PM me.

[whereisnomar]

Same here if you need like care or someone to drive you to the hospital i'll send my chauferere. PM me.

 

Dude, your like 13 or 14, how do you have a chauferere?

[stocker323]

Dude, your like 13 or 14, how do you have a chauferere?

It's his attempt at sarcasm.

[Moose]

Stay strong, man. I'll pray for you.

[element1151]

Man. Don't know what to say. With internet forums you don't really get to know people so well, but you seemed like a very decent person. Thanks for all you have done for this site, and for all of us.

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It's his attempt at sarcasm.

this isnt a time to be sarcastic, a man is dieing

[YankeeDoodle]

We're all dying.

 

Keep on living life and enjoying moments with your family and friends. Nowadays there are treatment options and cancer is definitely, definitely not a death sentence.

[mosox]

Live well everyday. Your generosity here to Sox fans is unmatched. Be strong and we'll stay in your corner.

[Sox Fan on Cape]

I really appreciate the outpouring of support and concern. I guess I was just looking for a little. What it comes down to is whether I want to get sliced, diced and radiated ( I already have a vision problem and type II diabetes and the inherent problems associated with it , along with being a heavy smoker for 30 yrs.). What it basically means is a decision of quality of life. Would you rather have an undetermined life span and be able to enjoy most of it, or spend a slightly longer period sick and in pain and pretty much useless giving up control. I've always been a control freak when it comes to decisions about my life. I'm sure a large percentage feel the same way. I'm not a quitter, but I do look at probabilities. Unfortunately, you can't get any from doctors. You get tests, tests, and more tests. Exploratory surgery and more tests. There is always the possibility of remission in either senerio. My family has always had a mistrust of doctors. My dad lived another 10 years after rectal cancer, he died at 79 yrs old. When it comes to money and support, my family will be well taken care of and I have transportation from numerous sources. I quess my point was to try to warn you guys to enjoy your life and do something with it. Most of you are on the younger side, but it's about this time that your parents and aunts and uncles will be having medical problems, cherish the time together the holidays are coming up.

Mods, it might be best to move this to another Forum ( like general discussion ).

[Boogie]

Keep battling.

 

Don't give up hope.

[Ray10]

Wow man I am shocked to hear this.Youll pull through and get better man. Your a good guy and u don't deserve this at all. I'll be praying for you.

[RedRuffing15]

SFoC, this is devastating news. Im sure im not alone when I say this, but it is unfortunate, how a man as generous as yourself (giving away all those tickets back in Late-August/Early September) could be dealt such an unfortunate blow. You are in my prayers, and we all wish you the best. You have been a pleasure to talk baseball with here on this board, and you will be missed if you do in fact leave us. Good luck, and stay strong.

 

I agree with all of that, just fight, and don't get down on ur self about it

 

My sister and uncle both had cancer 2 years ago, and they faught threw it, and now my sis is fine, my uncle too

[whereisnomar]

SFoC, what type of cancer is it?

[Sox Fan on Cape]

SFoC, what type of cancer is it?

Rectal. showed up with my 50 and older tests. Further tests, indicated may have spread further. Doctor, recommended sugery and exploratory. I don't like to to talk about it too much, cause of age of some of the site members and the the side effects of surgery( not quite feeling like a whole man anymore, etc. ). It also kind of scraes the s*** out of me and grosses me out .

[Soxfan1]

Same here if you need like care or someone to drive you to the hospital i'll send my chauferere. PM me.

 

 

By that I mean a friend in the area or parents.

[NotAHater]

Sad to hear this