Well said, and I think that if we put, "in my opinion" before everything we say, maybe it would not be taken like we are saying "My opinion is the truth and yours isn't" type perception by the readers.
Of course, nobody wants to type that before every statement, and we assume others take our statements in the context of it being an opinion.
I understand that when someone throws data and stats back at someone, it gives a strong impression that you are trying to prove the other opinion is wrong, and it's easy to take that as a slight on ones intelligence or baseball acumen. The thing about stats is that, if you dig deep enough, you can probably find a stat that goes against the one presented, so they often "prove" nothing in a debate, unless it is a clear cut situation, like someone claims so and so has been in a slump, when in fact they have been hitting .400 in the last 4 games, .350 in the last 10 games and .340 in the last month. It's doubtful any counter data would be available.
Another thing that kind of bugs me is that stat geeks like myself are sometimes viewed as people who don't understand the human side of the game, or have never played the game. Like it has to be one side or the other with not gray area or in betweens.
I've played the game for many many years. I didn't make my college team, but I continued playing some pretty high level ball through college. I feel like I do understand the human and emotional side of the game. I've played on teams that weren't playing like a "team" and hated it. I've played on teams where we had each other's backs and were very supportive. I've played with some great players who were total selfish *******s and some that were great teammates. I've played high level football and basketball with and against players that went pro. I'm not Steve Urkel.
I realize other have played and/or coached at higher levels than I have, and I'm not the most knowledgeable poster on this site, especially about players on other teams, and I respect a lot of posters on this site, including many I disagree with often.
Sorry for rambling on, here, but I wanted to let you guys know where I'm coming from.
We all love the Sox, many in differing ways. I still have very high hopes for this team, and I am truly pulling for Swihart to do better than Leon ever did with us.