I haven't got a clue as to who "Dutchy" is.
But, I can't prove it, so it really doesn't mean much.
And I'm puzzled as to why my integrity would be in question.
Seems to me that "turn the other cheek" isn't exactly a motto here.
I didn't start s***, but I have no problem finishing it.
And I tried to keep it private. That didn't work either.
If having to take s*** without standing up for myself is what I have to do to earn integrity here, then I probably am in the wrong place.