Always here to help.
However, let me pose the following question: What if someone offers something stupid to Napoli and the Sox would have to match a 5/80 offer to secure his services? Would you be ok with them overpaying in this instance when they could possibly get more production out of Hart for a tenth of the price and a fifth of the years? Because that's what members of the board talk about when they say "don't overpay". They overpaid for Victorino, Dempster, and Napoli last year so they could get them all on shorter deals, but there comes a point where "overpaying" becomes "being stupid" and that's what they should avoid.
Also, letting the "youth carry us" seems to be working quite well for the Cardinals, Rays, A's, Baltimore, Pirates, Braves and Reds. Maybe it's a good model to follow when you also have the resources to dip into the FA pool when needed and secure your own talent like some of these teams can't do?
To clarify (because i see that my post was very poorly worded and the dick accusation is warranted in this case) what i meant in my initial post was that it wouldn't make sense for fans of a team that has a 160 million payroll to be frugal, and that people here (and Red Sox fans in general) don't want them to refrain from spending money, but rather from spending money stupidly.