I guess we just see this situation differently. The players expect me to continue going to games, and continue to spend money on merchandise, then I expect them to show a little respect. Now I'm not asking that they come to my house and have Sunday dinner with me, but if I ask for an autograph I expect to receive it, and not the "Go f*** yourself" I got from Barry Bonds when I was younger. Should players have to sign 50 autographs for 1 fan, no. Should they sign as many autographs as possible, yes. I'm not saying they have to spend 10 hours at the field after the game, but before games there is plenty of time for autographs, and many players spend as much time as they can before their warm-ups signing autographs. Others will either completely ignore the fans, or curse/yell at them for even asking.
Trust me if I ask a player for an autograph "Mr. so and so, can I please have your autograph?" and he politely replies "Sorry ... I need time to warm up" than that’s fine. I respectfully asked for his autograph, and he respectfully denied with good reason. But like I said earlier there are just too many players that are quick to snap at fans, and too many that are very disrespectful, and act like it is the fans privilege to come see them play, when in reality the players are privileged to have the fans come see them play.
All I want from a player is respect.