I have to agree. As Duran said the slur he was probably reacting without thinking. It does not mean he is a bad person or a homophobe.
BTW, LBJ was the most pro black president since Lincoln, nevertheless in private he used the N word regularly.
The old days were different.
JFK had concubines and the press looked the other way.
Had a ball player said the F word in the 1960s it would have been 100% ignored by the media.
Duran made a mistake and he will pay. End of story. At least he can continue to be a ballplayer.