I have never said it's not okay to cry. I "cried" over losing Lester and was the poster who was okay giving Betts $400M/14, at one point.
Again, my point was not to disparage crying or emotional complaining, although the worst crybabies among us can get annoying, but to point out that, in my opinion, some of our not-so-good decisions have been at least partially influenced by the fear of stirring them up, which is part of doing business and not necessarily unjustified, either.
I get the point about us not being as competitive had we traded Bogey a year or two ago. It's a valid point. It was also a business choice.
I'm not saying being better going forward had we traded Bogey a year or two ago vs being better in 2022 or 2021 and 2022 would have been the best choice, but I do think we'd be better off now, had we done it (assuming we don't re-sign him.)
If anyone wants to say Red or I'm crying about us not trading Bogey earlier, they are free to do so, and they'd have proper standing. (I don't think I've gone on and on and on about it, and I can understand why we didn't do it and recognize not trading him has serious merit, too.)