I agree about the more reasonable statement, rather than "I'm f***ing pissed and the deal is off" or whatever Henry supposedly said. That said, if the Sox were to start bringing Boras, or the player, or the Yankees into the statements (even only as an aside) then they stand open to the "trash the player" reputation that so many on this board love.
Basically, I see this FO as a group of intelligent and well-resourced baseball fans. They want the Sox to win, but they won't lose hundreds of millions of dollars in the process. They think they can both have a positive business venture and a winning club, and I don't disagree with them.
I think Boras is a chump and is someone who has too much power in this game. However, the reality is that he does have that power and, like the Yankees, it is something we have to live with.