Don't agree with the word asinine, do agree it took me quite awhile to agree on Wright. "A few others" is in the eye of the beholder. You seem to think that the bullpen can do no wrong and that it's the manager who simply failed to use the right guys at the right time. I see a very inconsistent bullpen in addition to a manager with a wealth of information/stats, constant up close observation of his players/pitchers, and two good advisers--Lovullo and the pitching coach--with whom to consult well in advance of any pitching changes. Your rule seems to be, "if the Sox lost, it must be Farrell's fault." Mine is, "if the Sox lost, the players weren't hitting or the pitchers weren't pitching or errors were committed or 2 out of 3."
I normally accept all managerial in-game decisions but hold managers, Farrell included, accountable for overall wins and losses. On July 28 or August 12, I would have been fine with firing Farrell. But I honestly do not sweat the small stuff the way you do. As I recall, you also agonize over "miscalled" balls and strikes, whereas I firmly believe they do not prevent the better team that day from winning, nor do they prevent good pitchers from excelling and weak pitchers from failing.