I think you're missing the point. Entirely. We don't hate A-Rod because he didnt come to Boston. In fact, I was OVERJOYED that we didnt get him at the time, and most people who did want him at one point now realize the error of their ways.
Arod is a dirty player, a whiny bitch, and a primadonna. He's no Red Sock, and can't be compared to Damon.