I'm in West Springfield MA. Bringing mom back down to the Cape. It's completely overwhelming the level of care needed.
About to face a s*** show extraordinaire convincing my dad that they need almost 24 hr care, or she goes back into a full care facility. $20,000 / month. The system is so broken! Can you imagine $20,000 / month, unless you are destitute.
Everything will be gone within 5 years, but it's just too hard for ANY 1 person to handle, which has been the case for the past 4 months at my brother's house. So, back to dad's & either he agrees to almost full time care in the house, at least $150,000 / yr., or $240,000 in full care.
Dad, as he always does, will insist he is going to do it. It will be a s*** show!! When I took her out of the house in March, it was WWIII. My dad blames me for all of it, but she was on her death bed. Alzheimer's. Dad knows she has Alzheimer's, brain damage, and a good deal of mental illness, but has here to fore insisted that she just won't listen.....
Sorry.... venting.., ,,
It's just going to be another s*** show convincing him that there are only 2 options..... & None of them good. Convincing a man that everything he worked for his whole life will be gone in 7 years, along with the house.....
Fun stuff. :'(
But let the fireworks begin this afternoon.
Thank GOD for the Sox v. Yankees at 7:00. The one thing that has kept me & Dad from killing each other for 50 years. Yep. Our 'friction' started at about age 5. no really . . .