I get your point, but I really don't think I am condescending. I do know I don't try to be.
BTW, I get criticized a lot for using numbers and data, like nobody who is into stats can possibly understand the human element or the nonquantifiable aspects of the game.
I played baseball for decades. I was never even a good hitter, so I worked at becoming the best fielder and runner I could be. (I also walked a lot.) Maybe that's why I have a bias towards defense.
I think everyone here knows it: i like to express my opinion. If a different poster brings up a similar point as another, I'll repeat my position- sometime too often for those who read every post. I can see how I can come across as annoying at times, but I really don't see anything in my response to Spud that seemed even a little bit out of line.
Then, instead of apologizing, like I have too many times to remember, he escalated it twice more.
I'm not doubting Spud's a good guy and knows his stuff, but it's hard to just let remarks like that just slide by. I was taught to defend yourself and others against baseless attacks and falsehoods.
I'm not seeking validation. I love a good debate or argument. I don't need or want others to all believe the same things as I do.