There is an article in the SF Chronicle today that supports Valentine vis a vis Youk. Its written by John Shea and is titled:
"Valentine shouldn't have apologized", in bold.
I am going to use some selected areas to get the gist of the article across. Shea compared this situation with one that occurred with Aubrey Huff last year. The Giants manager called out Huff saying Huff "owned up to what happened this year, and he knows his struggles helped cause our struggles". The Giants GM backed up his manager. Shea says that if Huff had been pushed to do better earlier in the year (this was said towards the end of the year) maybe he would have pushed himself to do better.
Shea goes on to mention that Pedroia "piled on" Valentine when he said "thats not the way we do things around here, he will figure that out" and says that "Truth is, its the players who need to figure it out. Valentine is the manager because the players treated their clubhouse like as country club last year, prompting management to replace Terry Francona, who always protected his guys, with Valentine, who's obviously as straight shooter".
Shea concludes by saying that "Valentine apologized, which really wasn't necessary", "Valentine should have stood his ground", and "players should have respected his words", and finally "Thats the way its supposed to work".
Can't say as I disagree with much of that any more. Very persuasive arguement, isn't it.