Thats irrelevant, Pedroia has yet to do any of those things.
And 3 days is a minimum IMO, you stay not just for the "look what we made" emotion but to see your wife and kid and make sure they are ok, IMO there is absolutely no way that a GAME, and make no mistake it is a game played purely for entertainment and is in no way vital to how you run your life, is more important than seeing to your family at that time in life, if it disgusts you that he is out 3 days maybe you should stick to playing MLB on the XBox...and no one is claiming that the baby has memories before 4 so you can drop that point, its purely for the parents enjoyment as it should be.