I completely understand your point; everyone has a right to their opionion! In a lot of ways i feel the same way as you do. However I just think that if the sox FO would have done their job correctly, he would still be here and not in the toilet.
He said he would give a hometown discount: even in a recent interview he said that $46mil would have gotten him to stay. (i think if the sox had gone with their max offer earlier of 4/44 then he would still be here, but that's my opinion) He couldn't wait a few more days though as the yanks had given him a 4 hour window before they withdrew their offer.
From his point of view: the team you want to play for (and have played for) won't return your phone calls (they think you are bluffing--but that comes out later), they are cutting a lot of other guys from the previous year's team, and you don't know if they even want you back. A new team gives you a couple hours to decide if you want to play for them at a rediculous amount of cash. He took the only option he thought he had out there! I hate the fact that he's in the toilet, and he is now the enemy-----a lot of people will boo him, but i won't becuase i still believe, given what i have read, that he really wanted to come back. If i boo anyone it's going to be Lucky, but that's just me!