You've demonstrated:
1) that you've never been beaned, and probably never played an actual organized league game other than sitting around with friends and BSing about how you would've hit that HR further than Kirk Gibson or how you woulda pitched differently to Bernie in the 8th.
if you ever did actually pick up a glove and played with real live people, then I'd be shocked if it was for anything other than a pinch runner or defensive purposes. Any one who steps into the batter's box knows that there's a chance they'll get hit, it's accepted as part of the game. What they don't need to hear is about how they shoulda gotten outta the way. That doesn't intimidate anyone, it simply makes people think he's a classless person who has no concept of sportsmanship. That's not the same as intimidation.
Look at it this way, I'm intimidated by Manny and Ortiz, but do I think they're classless? NO. You can be intimidating without making yourself look like a complete jerk.
2) the lack of a basic ability to read. Noone said Curt should express concern other than "yeah I hit him, it happens", just that there was no need to say "he shoulda gotten outta the way"