A contrarian thought: if you look at the box score, it was a pure and simple game with the right pitcher winning. Cole pitched in the rain as much as Eovaldi and Sawamura did, but he only gave up 1 run (on a ground out) on 4 singles and 1 double. He struck out 11, including JDM 3 times and Devers twice. The Yankees tied it in the 5th on a long double by Allen and a single by LeMahieu and went ahead in the 6th on two dingers, by Sanchez and Torres, given up by Sawamura.
The travesty part was of course playing in all that rain and puddles, but MLB has been doing a lot of that in recent years. It was made worse by knowing that the Yankees refused to start the game at 7:15 when it wasn't raining and did start at 8:05 when it was. It's possible those 50 minutes helped some of the fans get beered up so that by the 6th one of the Yankees fans decided to throw a ball at Verdugo. Terrible, but also not without precedent.
As for the calls by the umpires, especially the one at home plate, I thought they were about right on balls and strikes and especially (by the 1b ump) on Vazquez's checked swing. It's a judgment call and I've seen plenty of strikes called on "checked" swings like his. Plus, he did that on an 0-2 count against Cole, so he was toast even if he gets a ball called on that pitch. Beyond any question Cole was the dominant force in that game, which is about par for him.