So, I've read over every single post in this thread, and I truly am trying so hard to respect the opinions of everyone in here, but some people are making it extremely difficult for me to do so.
I have been a Red Sox fan my entire life. I have more than likely been to more games at Fenway Park than everybody on here. I've been there for the good, the bad, and the ugly, and there has been a lot of ugly.
There's something first that you "real fans" need to learn about this organization before you criticize the entire integrity of the ballclub. The game of baseball is changing, as it always has. The steroid/home run era is on its way out, if not completely relinquished. In these tough times with the economy, baseball clubs are doing everything they can to attract fans to games, which accounts for the players salaries. Baseball isn't just about winning. It isn't about verbally abusing your beloved team until they win 100 games a year. It isn't about turning your backs on them because they aren't performing to their potential level. Baseball is more than that to a lot of people. I don't know who is talking about "getting rid of Sweet Caroline" and all this nonsense, but you sir claim to be a "true fan" when really, I've encountered hundreds of "fans" like you in the past and I can assure you, that is not the recipe for success. Just to pick on the Sweet Caroline point for a second, that is a key example of what the Red Sox are about, what the City of Boston is about, and all of New England. Down 6-1 coming into the bottom of the 8th? So what? Let's have a beer and sing some goofy fun song. It's a family game. It's our National Pastime. It's not about angry middle aged men chirping off to players because they went 0-5 that day. It's more than that. The energy in Fenway Park is still there, more alive than ever. I don't know if you have been to Fenway in the last 5 years or so, but I can assure you nothing has changed since as long as I can remember. Every day is a playoff atmosphere.
Trust me, these players do want it. They want it more than anything in the world. They have heart. Perhaps they don't have the chemistry previous teams do? Possibly. But you don't know. I don't know., Nobody knows except the players, the staff, and management. That's it. But I do know as a former professional baseball player (not MLB, don't get excited) that those guys battle their asses off, day in, day out. As for the meltdown this year, guess what, that's baseball. That's not "no-heart", or lack of passion, that's baseball. It hurts like hell to watch, but that's the way it is. Nobody can sit here and tell me that Ted Williams wanted that ring any more than Papi, Dusty, 'Tek, Pap, Lester. That's just the way the game is.
This is what separates us from New York fans, and anybody who has been to Yankee Stadium, new or old, will know what I mean. They have the same mentality as what this man here was going on about. Boo the team, harder media, hit their noses with a newspaper. Boston fans aren't like that. Sure, we'll let them know when they're having a bad night at the dish, of course. But in general, that's not what it's about. Next time you're sitting at Fenway, have a look around. Better yet, look around when they're losing. You won't see miserable frumps yelling and cursing at the team that has made the playoffs almost every single year this decade, including 2 World Championships, you will see faithful fans having a fun time at the ballpark, with their kids, with their girlfriends, wives, parents, friends. If "real fans" were any way as the way you described they should be, it would be a sad day for the City of Boston, and all of New England.
Go Red Sox!