At my job, if my family is sick, I can take a week or two off of sick time or bereavement. When I have s*** going on in my life, my work is affected. John Lackey does not get these luxuries. It isn't like he isn't showing up, he's working his ass off, and seeing a good outing from him really is a good thing for this team. So atleast wait till his next bad start to complain about him.