There are a lot of good posters here, Fred--very knowledgable and unafraid to face reality from what I see so far. But that doesn't mean there's not the usual contingency of pollyannas and apologists that generally resides in any Sox forum. And I'm sorry if some people find our approach a little 'brutal' as you put it, but you have to remember that some of us have seen this coming for years while the rumpswabs and the bonnetheads sat back and gave this ownership group free pass after free pass after free pass.
It's my opinion that these clueless 'feel goods' and "Sweet Caroline" people share as much responsibility for the demise of the team as that incompetent dope Blunder and space shot Henry do. Their adolescent hero worship of these has-beens and sacred cows speaks volumes about their understanding of the game, IMO, and despite the fact that many of them seem to be finally waking up to the gravity of the situation now, they're at least three years too late. The damage has been done and their enabling has been a factor.
We're approaching the time when even us realists tend to want to suspend our clear thinking and follow our hearts down a path that has us somehow winding up in the tall cotton at the end of the year. And this season is no different. Of course I want to believe we've got a shot this year at a playoff slot, but I've got to be realistic. The way I see it is it took five years of a 'solo' Blunder's incompetence and eight years of Francona's coddling to establish this 'culture of losing' that finally manifested itself in that humiliating collapse. That's a long time, and that's a culture that's grown some very deep roots. To think Valentine is going to successfully change that culture 180 degrees over one season is shortsighted IMO. And to be fair to the players, too--they're only human, and as is with any kind of dramatic 'change,' it takes time. Some will adapt faster than others, but as I'm sure we're about to see---others will either remain problems, or become bigger ones. From my POV, Valentine's job this year is to a) introduce change and a new system, salvage the salvageable, and c) weed out any remaining bad actors. If BV can accomplish those three goals he'll have set us up nicely and put us on a path to get back in the playoff hunt before the decade's half over.