I was reading an article done on a study that proved that the friendzone existed. I will agree that being nice doesn't mean shit. Inevitably I'm too lazy to change who I am to get a girl, but I'm not going to be an ass just to get a girl to like me. It's her loss more than anything. I guarantee that I'd treat her better than the guys she complains about. Oh well, I have enough to worry about with grad school and getting my career going before I can worry about ruining my life by getting a girl.
Honestly, I wish I could neuter myself to free myself from the desire of women and just focus on my own life. I've never thought about love and not ended up thinking about hanging myself in my apartment so purging myself of the desire for companionship would really help my cause.